I’ve never been an agent or recipient of the mercy rule before. That is until last night. When the fifth inning ended, we were down 21-6. Jackson was upset about being tagged at home for the last out, and I don’t have the heart to tell him that had he not hesitated, we would have only been down 14 runs and played a sixth inning. It was for the best anyway.
What I learned:
- Kids take these games very seriously. Now the adult tendency would be to tell them to chill out and lighten up, and while true, that’s easy for us grown-ups to say. These kids don’t have jobs, mortgage payments, responsibilities, and bigger things to invest themselves emotionally in. They’re 8-10, and this is a big deal for them.
- Confidence is a fragile thing. One second a kid will feel like he can tackle the world, the next he feels like he isn’t worthy to be on the field. I used second as the time frame, because it seems to turn that quickly.
- Our players need constant reminders about things like standing back in the box, being too far away from the plate, where the play is, etc.
- The team we played last night got first pick of all players who tried out. That is why they are the Blazers #1. Once they got done picking the team from tryouts, Blazers #2 went second, and then #3. That can be misleading, but it was obvious to me they had some good ballplayers.
What I liked:
- Playing at home. There’s nothing like it.
- Our team mentality. We are quick to get behind each other.
- The catch Jackson made on the fly to end the first.
- Watching Trey discover the benefits of pointing the toe toward home plate while pitching.
- Logan’s great form in retreating for a fly over his head. I thought he had it.
- Logan and Cole’s help on the bench. They both caught stuff we were missing.
- Seeing our parents (and my family) in the stands.
- The sportsmanlike demeanor of both teams.
- The weather! How blessed we are to play baseball during these rainy days.
- Wearing a Red Knight baseball cap. Everyone looks good in Red Knight colors.
- The great help from the other coaches in getting us ready for the game and packing up after. They are an asset and a blessing to our team.
What we need to work on:
- Calming down and trusting our abilities.
- Not putting any more pressure on the kids.
- Finding a better substitution pattern. I HATE, HATE, HATE putting anyone on the bench at all. I need to check to rules and see if there is a more equitable way.
- Finding a way to warm up our hitting swing.
- I need to organize my papers better.
- Outfield depth and spacing.
Our next game is Monday June 23 at Waukesha West HS. Please pray for a dry field. See you then!

June 12, 2008 at 3:18 pm
[...] blunt trauma to my middle-aged psyche June 12, 2008 — Allen Strelow After the game last night, Nicole and I went to the Chancery in the Wauwatosa village for a small bite and a beer. [...]