It’s August 25, and summer is over for our family. The kids started school today; this is nice in early June, but it stinks in late August. Our summer was full of baseball until late July, and all of the weekend rain date make-ups we had precious little time to do things like camp and go to the lake. But alas, we did get some whole-family quality time in.
Our first camping trip was a last-minute deal. We planned to go to a Cub Scout campout, but I was missing time with my not-so-little girls. So I decided to give Nicole a break and take the kids to a nearby State Park. We found a site at Pinewoods Campground in nearby Ottawa, WI (in the Oconomowoc/Dousman area). They were almost out of sites, so we had to pitch our tent over my lunch hour.
There is this common-sense rule about tents (or many other camping things for that matter). The rule is never pitch a new tent (or use new gear) live onsite without testing it out at home). It’s not good to find out you’re missing poles or your tent has a rip when you’re in the middle of nowhere and there’s nothing you can do about it. Due to the rush to get a site, I ignored that rule. It worked out this time, as our Kelty Mantra 7 was a charm to put up. I finished the day at work, packed up our stuff, and headed out.
Last year I took the kids to Rib Mountain State Park by myself and it was a watershed experience. To expect a similar experience would be a recipe for disappointment, so our only goal was to get away from it all and have some fun. After buying food for the weekend, we got into camp at 10:30. The first thing I noticed was a sea of stars against a crystal-clear night sky. It brought back memories of my trips to Lefeber Northwoods Camps as a Boy Scout. A after a trip to the vault toilets (a technical euphemism for outhouse), we settled into bed. The forecast called for clear weather so we pulled off the rainfly with the stars above us, we prayed and fell asleep.
For those of you out there who don’t get why camping is so rewarding let me paint this picture: lying down on a comfy sleeping pad next to your kids, looking up at the stars. It’s hard to find any constellation, because there are so many bright stars. No phone, no TV, no Internet. I’ve no need to worry about work, home, or even the score of the Brewer game (pennant races are more exhausting at 37 than when I was 11). No stress, just some quality time with my kids while beholding the wonder of God’s creation.
While taking the kids to the bathroom in the middle of the night, I was able to teach them how to walk in the dark without a flashlight. I learned this from Rudi Dornemann the Nature Center director at LNC in the late 1980s. You basically close your eyes for 10-20 seconds and allow your eyes to adjust to the light from the sky. It doesn’t work in the deep woods, but when navigating an open road in the night it’s awesome.
After breakfast (and espresso from my Bialetti Moka) we had to go to Wal-Mart to get some dish pans and a few other things we needed. We got back to camp and went swimming at Ottawa Lake Recreation Area, only five miles from camp. Jackson was hesitant to go in the water because there were girls from his school there. It turns out he’s already self-conscious around girls going into fourth grade. Between the awkwardness with girls and getting him deodorant the day before, it was a bit much to process. I emphasized the normality of his plight and told him he should feel free to tell me anything, because I’ve been there before.
By then the kids were wiped. I made a fancier dinner (grilled chicken, rice blend, and sugar snap peas) and finished the dishes. We would have made S’mores, but I left the chocolate and marshmallows in the car to melt. Once again, we slept under the stars with the rainfly off.
We awoke the next morning with spots of water in the tent. It took a while to teach Jackson about tent condensation, but he came around. We had a full breakfast: French toast, sausage, and overcooked espresso, and milk. In retrospect, I should have done something easier. We packed up and got home at 4:00. That’s a long time, but there was only one adult. Before we left, we made a list of things we remember. I will update this post with them sometime in the future.